Saw this video over at the Catalyst YouTube page, and thought it had some interesting comments. What are your thoughts?
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Last Words
Let me tell you a little secret about me: I like pro wrestling. You can make fun if you want, tell me how "fake" it is, blah blah blah. And don't worry, I'm going somewhere with this. But it has a very special place in my heart (and helped me through some tough times - ask me about it sometime and I'll share with you). Shawn Michaels is my favorite wrestler. He has been for several years now, and tonight Shawn said farewell to everyone. From all perspectives, Shawn is retiring.
What's unique about this event is that not many wrestlers get to go out in the way Shawn did. He was given the opportunity to share some last words - anything he wanted, straight from the heart. So Shawn thanked his closest friend, the WWE production team, Bret Hart, Vince McMahon and the fans. You could tell he was very sincere and emotional during this. But then Shawn shared what I almost knew he would (and what you may not know about him): he thanked Jesus Christ his Lord for saving him. With an audience of millions watching, he could have played it safe, kept things "comfortable" for everyone. Instead, Shawn publically praised Jesus Christ. He then told his kids that daddy's coming home, and humbly left, waving bye to the fans.
There's something special, something significant about someone's last words. This is their final opportunity to say something, so you can bet it's important to them. I think about Acts 1 when Jesus' final words were "... you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." That's huge. That we are called to be His witnesses. What I love about tonight is that Shawn took his moment in the spotlight to point to Jesus. Shawn was able, in this way, to be Jesus' witness to so many people.
With all of that said, here's my question:
If you had to share your last words with someone, what would you say? What would you tell them?
Why would that be your last words?
How important is what you have to say?
Now here's the next question:
Are you already telling them that?
If it's important, have you told people already?
If so, keep going!
If not, what's stopping you?
Don't let opinions or comments or fear or ________ get in the way of you sharing with someone what they need to know. ESPECIALLY if it's about the love, hope and life in Jesus Christ.
It's too important not to say.
We're called to be His witnesses.
Don't miss your opportunities.
Thank you Shawn.
What's unique about this event is that not many wrestlers get to go out in the way Shawn did. He was given the opportunity to share some last words - anything he wanted, straight from the heart. So Shawn thanked his closest friend, the WWE production team, Bret Hart, Vince McMahon and the fans. You could tell he was very sincere and emotional during this. But then Shawn shared what I almost knew he would (and what you may not know about him): he thanked Jesus Christ his Lord for saving him. With an audience of millions watching, he could have played it safe, kept things "comfortable" for everyone. Instead, Shawn publically praised Jesus Christ. He then told his kids that daddy's coming home, and humbly left, waving bye to the fans.
There's something special, something significant about someone's last words. This is their final opportunity to say something, so you can bet it's important to them. I think about Acts 1 when Jesus' final words were "... you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." That's huge. That we are called to be His witnesses. What I love about tonight is that Shawn took his moment in the spotlight to point to Jesus. Shawn was able, in this way, to be Jesus' witness to so many people.
With all of that said, here's my question:
If you had to share your last words with someone, what would you say? What would you tell them?
Why would that be your last words?
How important is what you have to say?
Now here's the next question:
Are you already telling them that?
If it's important, have you told people already?
If so, keep going!
If not, what's stopping you?
Don't let opinions or comments or fear or ________ get in the way of you sharing with someone what they need to know. ESPECIALLY if it's about the love, hope and life in Jesus Christ.
It's too important not to say.
We're called to be His witnesses.
Don't miss your opportunities.
Thank you Shawn.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Catalyst One Day - Review
Yesterday I had the privilege of attending Catalyst One Day. This is a (you guessed it) one day conference for leaders centered around one main topic. Andy Stanley and Craig Groeschel lead the conversation around "Momentum" - something we can all appreciate both personally and in our ministry (or business). Let me just say this: I love conferences. I love conversation. These both help me to think, process, dream, question, and stretch. Coming in to this event, I had some pretty high hopes - I've been to Catalyst East, and I learn both from Andy and Craig. Honestly, I left more than satisfied. The content was great. It was practical and proven. And the environment was great too. 2,100+ people were there - but it felt very conversational and not like we were being talked at. Even got to talk to Craig about his book and this blog, which was cool.
As far as learning, there was so much good stuff to take home and apply. Maybe I'm a little weird like this, but I love to get the "liners" - the gold nugget lines to write down and chew on. Here are some that I took note of yesterday.
- Don't add "programming". Add steps toward your goal.
- Limitation is the breeding ground for innovation.
- People don't stick to a production, they stick to a relationship.
- Churches are in decline because they have fossilized around practices that used to be an answer to the question
- Hire & recruit for the future, not the present.
- If you're not evaluating the areas where you are experiencing momentum, the clock is ticking down...
- If you don’t know what creates your momentum, you are one stupid step away from killing it.
Those are some of the lines they shared. That doesn't even include the stuff printed in the notebook, which, by the way, is also full of some great articles and info. Honestly, the people at Catalyst know what they're doing. A great organization that is getting it right and truly helping so many leaders. If you're in leadership, I strongly encourage you to get to a Catalyst event. Check out their website for info. It's a great event for you and your team.
As far as learning, there was so much good stuff to take home and apply. Maybe I'm a little weird like this, but I love to get the "liners" - the gold nugget lines to write down and chew on. Here are some that I took note of yesterday.
- Don't add "programming". Add steps toward your goal.
- Limitation is the breeding ground for innovation.
- People don't stick to a production, they stick to a relationship.
- Churches are in decline because they have fossilized around practices that used to be an answer to the question
- Hire & recruit for the future, not the present.
- If you're not evaluating the areas where you are experiencing momentum, the clock is ticking down...
- If you don’t know what creates your momentum, you are one stupid step away from killing it.
Those are some of the lines they shared. That doesn't even include the stuff printed in the notebook, which, by the way, is also full of some great articles and info. Honestly, the people at Catalyst know what they're doing. A great organization that is getting it right and truly helping so many leaders. If you're in leadership, I strongly encourage you to get to a Catalyst event. Check out their website for info. It's a great event for you and your team.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Catalyst One Day
Today I'm at Catalyst One Day in Chicago. Actually it's at Willow Creek in South Barrington, but not sure you've heard of it haha. We just wrapped up the first session and are gearing up for the second - and already loving it. There's something about coming together with 2,100+ leaders and talking about how to move foward. Today's topic is Momentum - something we all want and love to have. If you have never checked out the Catalyst Conference and organization, I would really encourage you to do so. Great stuff!
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Common + Accepted
I've been thinking about this idea for a little while now, and I think I've broken it down:
Common + Accepted ≠ Good
There are lots of things that are common anymore. Common meaning a lot of people have it, observe it or do it. And honestly, the more "common" something becomes, the more likely it is to become accepted. For example (this is just an example) - look at television. The things on television now would never have been allowed 30 years ago. But the more we see it, the more they do it, the more accepted it has become. That does not make it good.
And just because something is common and accepted by the world's standards does NOT mean it should be common or accepted in God's eyes. I know I run the risk of rubbing some people the wrong way here. That's fine.
I do need to be clear though: there are things that are common and acceptable that are good. I'm simply saying just because it's common and accepted does not always make it good. Hope that makes sense.
Here's my fear: Christians are becoming very lax about things. Whether it's the things we say, the way we present ourselves, how we interact with others, etc. I do believe that in some arenas of life, we've compromised. We want to fit in with the world, we want to reach people, etc. I get that all completely. But have some Christians embraced things that are common and accepted, but not good? I'm not getting into specifics today - this is for some reflection and evaluation on your part. I'm sure you can think of some examples.
The truth is, we live in a world today where almost everything is acceptable. That plows the way for things to become more common. The more common something becomes, the more acceptable it becomes.
You need to know - you've been called to better. Anyone can be average, give in, do what everyone else is doing.
Or you can live the way God has called you do.
If you're compromising today, I challenge you: stop.
It's not worth it.
Make the (hard) decision to live God's way.
It's better - and He has better for you.
Live a life that is good. Be uncommon if you have to.
Common + Accepted ≠ Good
There are lots of things that are common anymore. Common meaning a lot of people have it, observe it or do it. And honestly, the more "common" something becomes, the more likely it is to become accepted. For example (this is just an example) - look at television. The things on television now would never have been allowed 30 years ago. But the more we see it, the more they do it, the more accepted it has become. That does not make it good.
And just because something is common and accepted by the world's standards does NOT mean it should be common or accepted in God's eyes. I know I run the risk of rubbing some people the wrong way here. That's fine.
I do need to be clear though: there are things that are common and acceptable that are good. I'm simply saying just because it's common and accepted does not always make it good. Hope that makes sense.
Here's my fear: Christians are becoming very lax about things. Whether it's the things we say, the way we present ourselves, how we interact with others, etc. I do believe that in some arenas of life, we've compromised. We want to fit in with the world, we want to reach people, etc. I get that all completely. But have some Christians embraced things that are common and accepted, but not good? I'm not getting into specifics today - this is for some reflection and evaluation on your part. I'm sure you can think of some examples.
The truth is, we live in a world today where almost everything is acceptable. That plows the way for things to become more common. The more common something becomes, the more acceptable it becomes.
You need to know - you've been called to better. Anyone can be average, give in, do what everyone else is doing.
Or you can live the way God has called you do.
If you're compromising today, I challenge you: stop.
It's not worth it.
Make the (hard) decision to live God's way.
It's better - and He has better for you.
Live a life that is good. Be uncommon if you have to.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Surgery
Surgery is a pretty big deal. We have surgery to repair something that's broken or not working right. Surgery is to improve what's already there. Surgery is to remove something that's not functioning. Surgery is to stop pain and damage.
Whatever the reason, the core is this:
Surgery happens to make things better.
Sometimes people get so used to living a certain way that they don't even know they need surgery. Sometimes it's an emergency. And there are other times still that people choose to get something done.
But probably the most serious surgeries are the ones that have to happen - because life is at stake. Something is damaged, hurt, not working, causing problems, creating blockage, whatever it is - it's vital.
Sometimes we need "spiritual surgery" too. Sometimes things are in the way of our faith and our relationship with God, but maybe we're used to it. We've just learned to live with it. Or maybe something is blatantly in the way, and we know we need to deal with it but we keep putting it off.
I've been there before. And when I reflect, the things that have kept me from moving forward have been pride, fear and complacency. Thinking that everything's good enough.
Be honest with yourself. Does something need worked on? Do you need anything replaced?
God really is the best surgeon out there. Trust Him to do a good work in you, through you, and to lead your life.
It doesn't get more important than that.
Your faith, your relationship with God - is vital.
Whatever the reason, the core is this:
Surgery happens to make things better.
Sometimes people get so used to living a certain way that they don't even know they need surgery. Sometimes it's an emergency. And there are other times still that people choose to get something done.
But probably the most serious surgeries are the ones that have to happen - because life is at stake. Something is damaged, hurt, not working, causing problems, creating blockage, whatever it is - it's vital.
Sometimes we need "spiritual surgery" too. Sometimes things are in the way of our faith and our relationship with God, but maybe we're used to it. We've just learned to live with it. Or maybe something is blatantly in the way, and we know we need to deal with it but we keep putting it off.
I've been there before. And when I reflect, the things that have kept me from moving forward have been pride, fear and complacency. Thinking that everything's good enough.
Be honest with yourself. Does something need worked on? Do you need anything replaced?
God really is the best surgeon out there. Trust Him to do a good work in you, through you, and to lead your life.
It doesn't get more important than that.
Your faith, your relationship with God - is vital.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Emotional Decisions
Everybody has good days and bad days. Some days are smoother than others. Some are just rough. A key factor in this is: us. Our attitude, our behavior and our emotions.
Have you ever noticed how - the more "emotional" we are at any given time, the bigger a problem seems? Small issues seem like major issues when we're emotional. (And by emotional I mean upset, frustrated, etc - you know what I mean) When we're emotional, we can have a tendency to make a quick decision about things without really weighing out the options or consequences. We just want rid of it, we don't want to deal with it, it's an extra annoyance. Or we've had things build up and build up inside, and in one large rush, it comes spilling out. And with that, we're ready to share our opinion on EVERYTHING. This can get dangerous for us.
We all get "emotional" sometimes. Thankfully, we have people who love us, people who can keep us accountable. And if you don't, find someone who can. The bigger the issue is, the bigger the impact it will have. Don't make any decisions when you're upset, frustrated, angry, etc. Don't say something you'll regret. Take time to calm down, to process fully, then make your decision. Often the decisions we regret are ones made in the heat of the moment.
Have you ever noticed how - the more "emotional" we are at any given time, the bigger a problem seems? Small issues seem like major issues when we're emotional. (And by emotional I mean upset, frustrated, etc - you know what I mean) When we're emotional, we can have a tendency to make a quick decision about things without really weighing out the options or consequences. We just want rid of it, we don't want to deal with it, it's an extra annoyance. Or we've had things build up and build up inside, and in one large rush, it comes spilling out. And with that, we're ready to share our opinion on EVERYTHING. This can get dangerous for us.
We all get "emotional" sometimes. Thankfully, we have people who love us, people who can keep us accountable. And if you don't, find someone who can. The bigger the issue is, the bigger the impact it will have. Don't make any decisions when you're upset, frustrated, angry, etc. Don't say something you'll regret. Take time to calm down, to process fully, then make your decision. Often the decisions we regret are ones made in the heat of the moment.
Friday, March 19, 2010
What If Nothing Changed?
Some people really don't like change.
Some people readily embrace change.
Maybe you're somewhere in the middle there.
But consider for a moment:
Imagine if nothing changed.
How could anything improve?
How would we make any advancements?
Change can also keep things fresh, energizing, exciting.
It keeps us alert, aware, and forward-thinking.
You could argue that, if there were no change, that things couldn't get worse...
But that's the ultimate "status quo"
That begs for complacancy.
And we know that not all change is good change.
But for so much in life, things have to change if you want them to move forward.
Ultimately, someone will have to make a decision.
Is this the best way to do _______?
Is it the best way to accomplish the goal / mission?
In your family, in your workplace, in your life.
How can I show love to my wife better?
What can we improve in our ministry?
What doesn't our community have could be improved?
Are the way things are, right now, good enough?
Or can they be better?
If something can be better, don't you want it to be?
Personally, most times I would rather try and fail than to have never made an attempt. If I "fail", we can learn from it, build on it, and continue forward. If I'm going down, I want to go down knowing I tried to improve things an leave them better than they were.
That's part of leading. Leading means going somewhere new, and having others follow you there. If you don't move for improvements, you're not leading, you're managing.
Today's challenge: be open to change.
Some people readily embrace change.
Maybe you're somewhere in the middle there.
But consider for a moment:
Imagine if nothing changed.
How could anything improve?
How would we make any advancements?
Change can also keep things fresh, energizing, exciting.
It keeps us alert, aware, and forward-thinking.
You could argue that, if there were no change, that things couldn't get worse...
But that's the ultimate "status quo"
That begs for complacancy.
And we know that not all change is good change.
But for so much in life, things have to change if you want them to move forward.
Ultimately, someone will have to make a decision.
Is this the best way to do _______?
Is it the best way to accomplish the goal / mission?
In your family, in your workplace, in your life.
How can I show love to my wife better?
What can we improve in our ministry?
What doesn't our community have could be improved?
Are the way things are, right now, good enough?
Or can they be better?
If something can be better, don't you want it to be?
Personally, most times I would rather try and fail than to have never made an attempt. If I "fail", we can learn from it, build on it, and continue forward. If I'm going down, I want to go down knowing I tried to improve things an leave them better than they were.
That's part of leading. Leading means going somewhere new, and having others follow you there. If you don't move for improvements, you're not leading, you're managing.
Today's challenge: be open to change.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Identity
Who are you?
What defines you?
What makes you tick?
For many people, we find our identity in so many things. Our jobs, our hobbies, our successes, our kids' successes, our "things", our stuff, our social status, our reputation. Even, if we can be honest, sometimes our ministries.
What if all of those things were taken away? Who would you be then? Would you know?
God calls us to be and do many things.
But He calls us to be His. First.
At the core, you are to be God's.
First and formost.
Everything else can come around that, even stem from it.
But never replace it.
There can be times when we let other things become priority, or to define our self-worth, or to be our source of joy.
That doesn't mean those other things are bad,
but have we put them before God?
Is your core, is your identity, found in God?
Are you more focused on doing _______ or being _______?
Or is your focus on being God's child?
Don't forget who you are.
Don't forget whose you are.
What defines you?
What makes you tick?
For many people, we find our identity in so many things. Our jobs, our hobbies, our successes, our kids' successes, our "things", our stuff, our social status, our reputation. Even, if we can be honest, sometimes our ministries.
What if all of those things were taken away? Who would you be then? Would you know?
God calls us to be and do many things.
But He calls us to be His. First.
At the core, you are to be God's.
First and formost.
Everything else can come around that, even stem from it.
But never replace it.
There can be times when we let other things become priority, or to define our self-worth, or to be our source of joy.
That doesn't mean those other things are bad,
but have we put them before God?
Is your core, is your identity, found in God?
Are you more focused on doing _______ or being _______?
Or is your focus on being God's child?
Don't forget who you are.
Don't forget whose you are.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
GIVEAWAY: The Christian Atheist, by Craig Groeschel
Craig Groeschel is a pastor, speaker and author. Recently he finished up his book The Christian Atheist: Believing in God but Living As If He Doesn't Exist.
Craig is a pastor, speaker and author - and personally, I fully appreciate everything he has done for the local church and for leaders across the world. The book releases next week, and because I know it is going to be a great read, I'm giving away a few copies today. (If you didn't win any yesterday from Catalyst, here's another chance!)
FROM THE BACK COVER
'The more I looked, the more I found Christian Atheists everywhere.' Former Christian Atheist Craig Groeschel knows his subject all too well. After over a decade of successful ministry, he had to make a painful self admission: although he believed in God, he was leading his church like God didn't exist. To Christians and non-Christians alike, to the churched and the unchurched, the journey leading up to Groeschel's admission and the journey that follows---from his family and his upbringing to the lackluster and even diametrically opposed expressions of faith he encountered---will look and sound like the story of their own lives. Now the founding and senior pastor of the multicampus, pace-setting LiveChurch.tv, Groeschel personal journey toward a more authentic God-honoring life is more relevant than ever. Christians and Christian Atheists everywhere will be nodding their heads as they are challenged to take their own honest moment and ask the question: am I putting my whole faith in God but still living as if everything was up to me?
I will get to see Craig next week - maybe even get them signed.
Either way, I am GIVING AWAY 3 COPIES FREE!
Here's how to win:
1) Tweet this: Win Craig Groeschel's new book, The Christian Atheist. Drawing today! RT & comment here: http://bit.ly/cDX7S4
2) Comment below with your twitter name (to verify step 1) & your favorite tv show right now (just for fun!)
3) at 4:30pm EST, I'll choose 3 random winners from the comments below!
(Thanks Catalyst for the idea!)
Craig is a pastor, speaker and author - and personally, I fully appreciate everything he has done for the local church and for leaders across the world. The book releases next week, and because I know it is going to be a great read, I'm giving away a few copies today. (If you didn't win any yesterday from Catalyst, here's another chance!)FROM THE BACK COVER
'The more I looked, the more I found Christian Atheists everywhere.' Former Christian Atheist Craig Groeschel knows his subject all too well. After over a decade of successful ministry, he had to make a painful self admission: although he believed in God, he was leading his church like God didn't exist. To Christians and non-Christians alike, to the churched and the unchurched, the journey leading up to Groeschel's admission and the journey that follows---from his family and his upbringing to the lackluster and even diametrically opposed expressions of faith he encountered---will look and sound like the story of their own lives. Now the founding and senior pastor of the multicampus, pace-setting LiveChurch.tv, Groeschel personal journey toward a more authentic God-honoring life is more relevant than ever. Christians and Christian Atheists everywhere will be nodding their heads as they are challenged to take their own honest moment and ask the question: am I putting my whole faith in God but still living as if everything was up to me?
I will get to see Craig next week - maybe even get them signed.
Either way, I am GIVING AWAY 3 COPIES FREE!
Here's how to win:
1) Tweet this: Win Craig Groeschel's new book, The Christian Atheist. Drawing today! RT & comment here: http://bit.ly/cDX7S4
2) Comment below with your twitter name (to verify step 1) & your favorite tv show right now (just for fun!)
3) at 4:30pm EST, I'll choose 3 random winners from the comments below!
(Thanks Catalyst for the idea!)
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
If You Can Read This...
If you can read this...
...you are blessed.
You must be on a computer (which isn't cheap),
you have access to electricity,
you have access to the internet,
you have access to information,
you can contact people around the world in seconds,
you have the ability to see.
Today, don't forget how fortunate you are.
Just because something is common does not mean it's not relevent or valuable.
Be thankful for what you have.
And do good for others with it.
...you are blessed.
You must be on a computer (which isn't cheap),
you have access to electricity,
you have access to the internet,
you have access to information,
you can contact people around the world in seconds,
you have the ability to see.
Today, don't forget how fortunate you are.
Just because something is common does not mean it's not relevent or valuable.
Be thankful for what you have.
And do good for others with it.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Measure Passion
You can often measure a persons passion for something by what they are willing to endure for it and how far they will go to pursue it, support it, to see it happen.
What are you passionate about?
What do you want to see happen?
What are you willing to go through for it?
How far would you go?
What would you sacrifice?
I don't think we really like that word: sacrifice. I believe a lot of people are willing to give, but how much will we sacrifice? That word can just hit part of our minds, and we react, get defensive, protective - and sometimes we even move to justify our positions.
I think that many people would sacrifice for their family, or for some close friends. But what about for those you don't know? What about for a worthy cause? What makes a cause "worthy enough" for you? Does it have to have a benefit for you, or is your heart more about the benefit of others?
What are you passionate about?
These questions are worth wrestling through.
What are you passionate about?
What do you want to see happen?
What are you willing to go through for it?
How far would you go?
What would you sacrifice?
I don't think we really like that word: sacrifice. I believe a lot of people are willing to give, but how much will we sacrifice? That word can just hit part of our minds, and we react, get defensive, protective - and sometimes we even move to justify our positions.
I think that many people would sacrifice for their family, or for some close friends. But what about for those you don't know? What about for a worthy cause? What makes a cause "worthy enough" for you? Does it have to have a benefit for you, or is your heart more about the benefit of others?
What are you passionate about?
These questions are worth wrestling through.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Your Secret Name - Launch Party
This September, a new book is coming out called Your Secret Name: Discovering Who God Created You to Be.
The author Kary Oberbrunner and some great ministry partners are throwing an online launch part on Monday, March 15th. You could win an Apple iPad, Registrations for Catalyst, a Whiteboard Session and more! To register for your chance to win or for more info, head on over to the launch party page. And if you're wondering what the book is about, check out the video below.
The author Kary Oberbrunner and some great ministry partners are throwing an online launch part on Monday, March 15th. You could win an Apple iPad, Registrations for Catalyst, a Whiteboard Session and more! To register for your chance to win or for more info, head on over to the launch party page. And if you're wondering what the book is about, check out the video below.Thursday, March 11, 2010
Something Different
Do something different today.
Most people get into a routine.
We get comfortable with what we do, with our pattern, the typical way.
Why not do something different?
Think of what you may be missing.
And if you can't think of anything, you've probably been staying comfortable for too long.
You know what you're going to get right now.
God may have more for you!
Be open to change.
Great things are out there.
If you don't like it, if it's not good, that's ok.
But at least you'll know.
Most people get into a routine.
We get comfortable with what we do, with our pattern, the typical way.
Why not do something different?
Think of what you may be missing.
And if you can't think of anything, you've probably been staying comfortable for too long.
You know what you're going to get right now.
God may have more for you!
Be open to change.
Great things are out there.
If you don't like it, if it's not good, that's ok.
But at least you'll know.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Listen to Passion: Awakening - FREE!
This album just released - but you can check it out here for free! Hope you enjoy!
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Stuck Quote
About a year ago I heard a quote by John Maxwell, and it goes (something) like this:
Most Christians are educated way beyond their level of obedience
This quote has just stuck with me - because I think it's true. Don't get me wrong, I think (most) Christians are well meaning people, and I hope that we have a desire to continue to learn and grow in our faith... but are we obedient to the things that we know of already about how God has called us to live?
Imagine if we were.
Be honest, stop and think.
What ways in your life are you living God's way?
What has God called you (Christians) to do that maybe you're not really doing?
It may be something that is hard, or uncomfortable, or new, or scary, or it may require some big change.
But GOD has called you to it.
He made you, provides for you, saved you, sustains you.
And He calls you to this life because it's the BEST you could have.
Today, if you see room to grow, room to be more obedient to God, take a step in that direction. Don't settle, don't compromise.
Be His.
Most Christians are educated way beyond their level of obedience
This quote has just stuck with me - because I think it's true. Don't get me wrong, I think (most) Christians are well meaning people, and I hope that we have a desire to continue to learn and grow in our faith... but are we obedient to the things that we know of already about how God has called us to live?
Imagine if we were.
Be honest, stop and think.
What ways in your life are you living God's way?
What has God called you (Christians) to do that maybe you're not really doing?
It may be something that is hard, or uncomfortable, or new, or scary, or it may require some big change.
But GOD has called you to it.
He made you, provides for you, saved you, sustains you.
And He calls you to this life because it's the BEST you could have.
Today, if you see room to grow, room to be more obedient to God, take a step in that direction. Don't settle, don't compromise.
Be His.
Monday, March 8, 2010
Your Ideal Church
We all have our own ideas of what we think church should look/feel/act like. We have different preferences in music, media, dramas, speaking style, etc. What's interesting is that the traits of your church can help influence the "types" of people that you target or are attractive to.
So I would really enjoy hearing what your ideal church is like. Leave a comment describing your church. Even if you are not currently part of a church, what would you want a church to be like - one that you would want to be a part of?
Your answers can be preferences, biblical, both, whatever. And feel free to dream. Today just share what you think - will be enjoyable for us to hear from others! (you can even post anonymously if you want)
So I would really enjoy hearing what your ideal church is like. Leave a comment describing your church. Even if you are not currently part of a church, what would you want a church to be like - one that you would want to be a part of?
Your answers can be preferences, biblical, both, whatever. And feel free to dream. Today just share what you think - will be enjoyable for us to hear from others! (you can even post anonymously if you want)
Friday, March 5, 2010
Good People or God's People
I had a conversation the other day with a friend, and we were talking a little bit about our families. It was interesting because we both have family members that are nice people. They're kind to others, polite, helpful - but they are not Christians. His words were "from a distance, you wouldn't be able to tell they weren't Christians". Do you know people like that?
I know some good people. I also know some Christians. My question is, how are Christians living their lives differently than nonchristian "good" people? As I've thought about this, I've always understood that Christians are to live lives "set apart" from the world. Lives that model examples. Lives that will make people think "something is different about them".
But are many Christians just blending in with everyone else? Are we living lives that are simply civil with others? What sets us apart? If people you know were asked about your life, would they say you are a Christian?
Don't get me wrong, we are to be good people. But it's more than that. My fear is that we don't show or share much more than that. I've shared with our adult volunteers that kindness, hospitality, friendliness are all great. But at some point we've GOT to have a conversation about WHY we live this way. Especially if we really believe what we say we believe, then this faith in God should be the most important thing in our lives. We talk about our family, our jobs, our hobbies - are you talking about our God? It's like that old line "preach the gospel always, and when necessary, use words". Living out your faith includes talking about it. If we don't talk about it, who will?
Be more than good. Be God's.
I know some good people. I also know some Christians. My question is, how are Christians living their lives differently than nonchristian "good" people? As I've thought about this, I've always understood that Christians are to live lives "set apart" from the world. Lives that model examples. Lives that will make people think "something is different about them".
But are many Christians just blending in with everyone else? Are we living lives that are simply civil with others? What sets us apart? If people you know were asked about your life, would they say you are a Christian?
Don't get me wrong, we are to be good people. But it's more than that. My fear is that we don't show or share much more than that. I've shared with our adult volunteers that kindness, hospitality, friendliness are all great. But at some point we've GOT to have a conversation about WHY we live this way. Especially if we really believe what we say we believe, then this faith in God should be the most important thing in our lives. We talk about our family, our jobs, our hobbies - are you talking about our God? It's like that old line "preach the gospel always, and when necessary, use words". Living out your faith includes talking about it. If we don't talk about it, who will?
Be more than good. Be God's.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Vision Problems
People & organizations that thrive have vision. They know who they are. They know what their goal is. And they go after it. You can look around and see examples of those who are simply surviving, or doing just enough to not get too many complaints. They don't try too hard. Their goal is to stay afloat. (Makes me think of the saying "even a blind squirrel finds a nut". Enough to survive.)
There are churches like this too. Bills get paid, we're satisfied with the numbers, people are comfortable... and that's enough. Just gonna be honest, this bothers me. There are only 3 reasons why I can imagine a church (or any other organization) doing this: 1) They have no vision, 2) Their vision is too small, and/or 3) Their vision is not God's vision for them.
This applies to people as well. Look at your life. Who are you? Who do you want to be? What are you going after? What do you want to accomplish? Does it honor God? Is it for His purposes? Or is it about you? The vision for our life should not simply be about our goals - it's got to be about God's goals. That's why we're here. That's why we exist. And we desperately need to get this right.
So where are you at? How about your organization? Clear vision, or simply day-to-day surviving? Where do you want to go, what do you want to accomplish, what are you about? Does it honor God?
If so, that is good. Now go do it.
Define:
Who you are
What are your core beliefs
What do you want to reach or accomplish
Don't let anything stop you. Do the hard work.
Go after it with heart, with passion. Run the race to win.
There are churches like this too. Bills get paid, we're satisfied with the numbers, people are comfortable... and that's enough. Just gonna be honest, this bothers me. There are only 3 reasons why I can imagine a church (or any other organization) doing this: 1) They have no vision, 2) Their vision is too small, and/or 3) Their vision is not God's vision for them.
This applies to people as well. Look at your life. Who are you? Who do you want to be? What are you going after? What do you want to accomplish? Does it honor God? Is it for His purposes? Or is it about you? The vision for our life should not simply be about our goals - it's got to be about God's goals. That's why we're here. That's why we exist. And we desperately need to get this right.
So where are you at? How about your organization? Clear vision, or simply day-to-day surviving? Where do you want to go, what do you want to accomplish, what are you about? Does it honor God?
If so, that is good. Now go do it.
Define:
Who you are
What are your core beliefs
What do you want to reach or accomplish
Don't let anything stop you. Do the hard work.
Go after it with heart, with passion. Run the race to win.
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
You Belong
Let me tell you an obvious truth: people were made for community. We have a hard-wired desire to feel like we belong somewhere. We love feeling loved. We're supposed to feel that way. We want friends. We appreciate affirmation. Affirmation communicates appreciation for where we are and what we're doing. It says what you're doing is good - you fit there - you belong. And when we struggle, we need support. We need others to rally around us, to lift us up and help us out. Belonging and including should go hand in hand. It helps people to know that they matter.
Sometimes we're really bad at this though. I mean a person can be fully present somewhere physically but not be included. Say there's a conversation happening, and someone comes up to it - because they want to be included. They want to be a part of it. Not just to share their two cents, but to be accepted. Included. To belong.
How about a church. What if a person walked into a church and looked different than everyone else. Maybe this person dresses differently. No one greets them, no one shakes their hand, no one says a word to them. The person may catch a person eyeing them up and down, then looking away, but there's been nothing communicated other than looks of curiousity (and possibly judgement). We're all God's children, Jesus died for all of us, but what has just been said to this person? You aren't like us. You don't belong here.
We really do lean towards accepting those who look, think, and act like us, don't we? But who did Jesus surround Himself with? Men from different backgrounds and occupations. Jesus went to those that others despised. He talked with those who people looked down on. He made sure that everyone knew they were included. They were loved. And that tells a person they matter.
We all belong to God. But not everyone knows that. Part of your role (Christian's) is to help others learn and understand this. Help people to know they not only belong, but they have a purpose - they are included in God's plan. God's plan is for us to be the church. The church is the "body" of believers, a community. And in case you missed it: people were made for community. The church is made of imperfect people surrendered to God, covered in grace & love, and extending the same to others. When we don't, we fail. When we do, we grow, we thrive - and God celebrates.
The church is God's community.
The community He has called us to be.
Help build it.
Sometimes we're really bad at this though. I mean a person can be fully present somewhere physically but not be included. Say there's a conversation happening, and someone comes up to it - because they want to be included. They want to be a part of it. Not just to share their two cents, but to be accepted. Included. To belong.
How about a church. What if a person walked into a church and looked different than everyone else. Maybe this person dresses differently. No one greets them, no one shakes their hand, no one says a word to them. The person may catch a person eyeing them up and down, then looking away, but there's been nothing communicated other than looks of curiousity (and possibly judgement). We're all God's children, Jesus died for all of us, but what has just been said to this person? You aren't like us. You don't belong here.
We really do lean towards accepting those who look, think, and act like us, don't we? But who did Jesus surround Himself with? Men from different backgrounds and occupations. Jesus went to those that others despised. He talked with those who people looked down on. He made sure that everyone knew they were included. They were loved. And that tells a person they matter.
We all belong to God. But not everyone knows that. Part of your role (Christian's) is to help others learn and understand this. Help people to know they not only belong, but they have a purpose - they are included in God's plan. God's plan is for us to be the church. The church is the "body" of believers, a community. And in case you missed it: people were made for community. The church is made of imperfect people surrendered to God, covered in grace & love, and extending the same to others. When we don't, we fail. When we do, we grow, we thrive - and God celebrates.
The church is God's community.
The community He has called us to be.
Help build it.
Quick SYMC Thoughts & Fun
I've been offline the past few days while attending SYMC (stands for Simply Youth Ministry Conference) in Chicago. Truly, this event is a must-go-to conference if you are in youth ministry. It's great to be able to connect with new friends, share with colleagues, receive quality training and leave refreshed. For some, it's a place of healing - and we witnessed it again this past weekend.
The theme was "Surprising Legacy" and recognizing the legacy we leave & want to leave. I'm still processing everything I experienced at the conference, but only because there was so much to take in. Duffy Robbins, Derwin Gray, Skit Guys, and of course Doug Fields all bought it in the main sessions. So humbly thankful that I get to be a part of it. They value youth workers. Plain and simple.
With all of that said, they didn't fail to continue their value of fun as well. Each year they create & premier new videos for us to laugh with, and this year was no different. Check a couple videos out below. And I would honestly encourage you to register for SYMC 2011 now! They sold out this year, and already there are over 550 already registered for next year!
FIGHT THE YOUTH MINISTRY STEREOTYPE
KILLER YOUTH MINISTRY TIPS
The theme was "Surprising Legacy" and recognizing the legacy we leave & want to leave. I'm still processing everything I experienced at the conference, but only because there was so much to take in. Duffy Robbins, Derwin Gray, Skit Guys, and of course Doug Fields all bought it in the main sessions. So humbly thankful that I get to be a part of it. They value youth workers. Plain and simple.
With all of that said, they didn't fail to continue their value of fun as well. Each year they create & premier new videos for us to laugh with, and this year was no different. Check a couple videos out below. And I would honestly encourage you to register for SYMC 2011 now! They sold out this year, and already there are over 550 already registered for next year!
FIGHT THE YOUTH MINISTRY STEREOTYPE
KILLER YOUTH MINISTRY TIPS
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